HAPPY BIRTHDAY "PAPA"
The word "Papa" it means a lot to a child. When the child is a toddler he speaks in his broken words Pa-Pa...and its believed that this word "papa" generated for the male parent (father) who also called daddy...dadda..etc. Whole day when mother nurture a child and in evening when Papa comes home after a full day work, child forget his mom and jump into the cradle of Papa's arm. Child find an ultimate solace, security in his Papa's arm. Papa enjoy and forget all the tensions playing with child.Child use to do rock climbing on Papa's chest, reaching on Papa's shoulder on his own is like conquering a mountain peak. Papa use to lift child up and turn him from back to front and front to back completes his necessary workouts which normally people do in gym with weights.
As the time spins into future child grows to a school going kid where he likes to play with his Papa...get his small problems solved, child get completely inundated in love and security of his Papa. Child looks his Papa as a role model and he is the hero for him. He remember when Papa doesn't want to read newspaper on his own use to call him to read English newspaper and when he use to read he developed a liking for newspaper reading and likewise this beautiful habit instill in him. What a beautiful way to develop and nurture a growing child.
Child progresses from School to college but he remains the same old small child for his Papa.
Papa always celebrated his birthday with lot of fanfare and child never forget his Papa's Birthday and with his small savings from the daily pocket money he brought some small gift for his Papa which means a lot to his father as the sentiments attached to that gifts make it very precious.It shows the caringness from a child towards his parent.
Once child got ill and became unconscious, Papa got tensed, called doctor and sat the whole night to keep a watch on his child and finally he got relief when child become conscious after a medication. This shows the utmost care, love and sincerity toward a child from his parent.
Same child when reaches college and completed his professional degree and join some job but still he remain a child for his Papa. He always asks his child if he needs money, if he needs anything then please let him know and without hesitation he will arrange the same. Grown up child has the same values and character as of his parent and he had his self consciousness and he don't want to be a burden on his retired father and very respectfully he denied to take any help.
Time passes by child got married and brought a beautiful wife. And still child remain the same small kid for his parent...as sometime it becomes embarrassing for Child in front of his wife when he is treated by parent in the same kid way.
Child has become a grown up man and got a wonderful job in gulf and he started working intelligently and made a very good rapport with his colleagues and bosses.
It was just 4 months of him working in gulf that one black day he got news from his younger bro that his inspirer, his mentor, his teacher, his best friend, his lovable Papa is no more and left for heavenly abode leaving us in complete void. The space created by him was even not filled by his eldest father figure bro.
The feeling of loneliness, his remembrance always haunted this Child. His father left this planet earth at the age of 64 due to cardiac arrest as he had Asthma.
From then on Child always celebrates on 9th July every year in his solitude the Happy Birthday of his Papa whom he termed the best Papa ever come on this earth.
Child and his father's relationship is very vital in the development and nurturing of a child. The strong bond which created between two makes Child very confident and instill prowess to face the challenges of the outer world.
So. it is always recommended that parent should give time to his child for his better upbringing and overall development.
Have a nice evening...take care
With love and regards,
Manoj Kumar Ojha
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