DAY-51, THAKUR VILLAGE, KANDIVLI(EAST), MUMBAI, 19TH JULY'09 22.54 HRS

Do we need personal space in married life???

In any relation, whether it is of parents, your child, between lovers or husband and wife. Everyone has own thinking, so they want to live life according to their attitude. It is right that god has created man but he had imparted different thought processes to different people. No two persons are alike in this world and where difference lies. Hence it is important to have a personal space or privacy in married life. A marriage is between two genders and between two different people committed to live together. We don’t marry a perfect person it is the imperfectness of two which later become perfect.

Space and time for ourselves creates a much needed sense of stability and tranquility, particularly in today’s increasingly fast-paced world. As marriage is not any bond which grips the man with its chains. Privacy is essential in married life. two people could know each other in much better manner. As living away for while will tend to realize the importance of the other person in man's life. As always living together the person will not realize the importance.

Privacy doesn't mean hiding something from each other. But it is like having difference in opinion. As after marriage there is drastic change in the life of man and woman. So in some sphere of this married life one may be good, while in some the other. It is not like spending life in aloof. But it is mutual understanding. This shows in actual sense the understanding between the two, which makes the relation stronger. It will turn out to be that bond which is filled with honesty, love and respect, which no storm can break or bend it.

What you think about the personal space in the married life????? Do post your comment…

With love and regards,

Manoj Kumar Ojha